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Tyler Matlock at the Reception

I think all of you know that, since 2002 when US forces went into Afghanistan, our family has prayed daily for the success and protection of our troops and their families.

The tempo of deployments has been so high that the families have need our prayers.
(There are huge costs to the war that can’t be measured in dollars. Military families are the undocumented casulties.)

Our prayers were earnest, but abstract, that is until we went to Fort Sill in January.
Now there are names, faces to go with the prayers for safety and success and family survival.
Our adventure is all we could have hoped for.

So, God bless Drill Sergeant Frank Obie and his family, SPC Jeff Matthews, Nicole and their children, PFC Ryan Ovens and his wife, Tom Brox, President Adair and Coleen, Priscilla Sacks, Diana Scholz and all the others.

SPRING on the HIGH PLAINS is quite as beautiful as we remembered, trees and fields of flowers blooming.
Mom insisted we document my DUCT TAPE masterpiece, the TV antenna on the rear of the FEMA trailer.
It enabled us to get several commercial stations and the Oklahoma PBS.
It stood up to 50 mph winds.
I did have to use some wire with the duct tape on this SEWER PIPE ELBOW that was the base of the mast.
Sister Ivey has tables at the back of the room with e-Mails, pamphlets, Books of Mormon, a temple roll, Ensigns, sign-in sheets and hand sanitizer (most of the soldiers are sick with some crud or other because of stress, exposure, sleep deprivation, weather, etc.) Mom & Gabi are greeters and guide the first-timers through sign-in and getting materials.
We always have five to 25 non-member visitors. A few come because they can go to ‘church’ right in their area, but most are invited by a buddy. Of the members attending, about one-third are Aaronic priesthood or just ‘members,’ one-third are elders, and one-third are RMs. We have sacrament, priesthood and Sunday-school, and often a baptism in a nearby Army chapel following the block.
We have fast and testimony the first Sunday, but the soldiers are not allowed to fast. We have a high-council speaker, and some months, a family from the ward will come and speak. The rest of the time soldiers are assigned talks. The full-time Elders teach missionary discussions during priesthood time. The FSSMG leads the mission in convert baptisms.
Soldiers are interviewed and called for the 10 to 19 weeks they will be here, to give priesthood blessings, to be group missionaries, to bless and pass the sacrament, to give sacrament talks, to conduct music, to instruct priesthood, and to teach Sunday-school. In the picture below, the Kaplan family from Lawton First Ward is speaking at Sacrament Meeting in February, 2008.
Families travel from across the nation to attend. It is an impressive military ceremony—very ‘dress-right-dress.’
The band plays the National Anthem, there are speeches, and the soldiers shout in unison the Soldier’s Creed:
"I am an American Soldier.
I am a Warrior and a member of a team.
I serve the people of the United States and live the Army Values: Loyalty, Duty, Respect, Selfless-Service, Honor, Integrity, and Personal Courage...
"I will always place the mission first.
I will NEVER accept defeat. I will NEVER quit. I will NEVER leave a fallen comrade.
I am disciplined, physically and mentally tough, trained and proficient in my Warrior tasks and drills. I will always maintain my arms, my equipment and myself.
I am an expert and I am a professional.
I stand ready to deploy, engage, and DESTROY the enemies of the United States of America in Close Combat.
I am a guardian of freedom and the American way of life.
I AM an American Soldier."
We work on math, word knowledge, and reading comprehension, but especially on math. The class is called Basic Skills Education Program II, or BSEP II. The exams are quite challenging.
Mom works at the Soldier’s Closet and she and Gabi work at the Lending Closet. These facilities give out or lend out items to young families, most of whom are just moving to Fort Sill. The Soldiers Closet is run by the Armed Forces YMCA, and they have donated new and used clothing, toys, appliances, bedding, dishes, linens, and the like. Families can come twice a month and shop for free.
The Lending closet is run by the Army and families or single soldiers can borrow pots, pans, dishes, a vacuum, utensils, sleeping mats, high chairs, cribs, strollers, car seats, chairs, tables and cots to tied them over until their household goods arrive.
Lake Elmer Thomas Recreation Area (LETRA) is where we go several times a week for showers. The trailer can work for Mom and Dad, but not for Gabi.
This is the shower building and RV park.
There is a marina, beach, clubhouse, store, playgrounds and boats for rent. LETRA has nice roll in showers at the RV park. And setting on the lake at the foot of Mount Scott, it is very scenic. It is on Post about an 8 mile drive through the wilderness from where we live on Medicine Creek.
Below is Reinhart Field House
We all go to one gym or other on Post to work out. Mom and I like the elliptical, but also use the bikes, stair-stepper, and treadmill. Each gym has a pulley machine that Gabi can use.
We have a couple of nice hang-outs on Post. At the Nye Library Gabi can use the wireless internet to do Church Indexing while Mom browses the hundreds of VHS and DVD movies and reads magazines. (She has also been known to lift the coupon and sales flyers out of the Lawton newspaper.)
The Fort Sill Golf Course was just completely renovated, and has a beautiful new club house with a grill that serves great food, two wall-size plasma TVs with cable, and wireless internet.